In a world obsessed with perfection, it’s easy to get swept up in the illusion of “fake life” the act of pretending to have more than you do, be more than you are, or live a life that simply isn’t true. Social media plays a huge role, offering a constant stream of influencers and celebrities flaunting picture-perfect lives. The pressure to keep up, especially with societal and peer expectations, can push many into a facade they can’t sustain.

But why do we do it?

Often, it’s not just about impressing others; it’s about living up to the expectations society has placed on us. Whether it’s having the latest car, designer outfits, or the most luxurious vacations, the idea is simple: if you can show it, you can convince others and sometimes yourself that you’ve “made it.”

But beneath the surface of those filtered pictures and staged moments, there’s a growing sense of emptiness. Fake life can lead to stress, anxiety, and a loss of identity. The constant need to project perfection means hiding your true self, making it difficult to connect authentically with others.

We all crave acceptance, but it’s important to ask: are you seeking acceptance for who you are or for the version of yourself you’ve created for the world to see?

The truth is, no one has it all figured out, and that’s okay. Real life is messy, unpredictable, and full of ups and downs and that’s where true connections and self-fulfillment lie. It’s time to drop the expectations, embrace authenticity, and live for ourselves rather than for the approval of others.

By Edima Columbus