Flirting can be subtle or bold, depending on his style and personality. But some tell-tale signs reveal when a guy is trying to make a move. Here are four ways to tell if a man is flirting with you!

1. He Mirrors Your Body Language
   Ever noticed him leaning in when you lean in, crossing his arms when you do, or matching your tone and expressions? This subtle mirroring can be a subconscious way of showing that he’s comfortable with you and is keenly interested in your energy. It’s his way of aligning himself with you, building a bond, and showing he’s in sync with you.
2. He Finds Excuses to Touch You
   Light, playful touches are often a classic sign of flirting. Whether he gently brushes your shoulder or playfully taps your arm while laughing these little touches are his way of creating a spark. Notice how he uses touch to connect it might just be his way of trying to break the touch barrier and signal his interest.
3. He Keeps the Conversation Focused on You
   If he’s flirting, he’ll be eager to keep the spotlight on you. He’ll ask questions, listen attentively, and show genuine interest in your stories. Compliments and personalized attention are also common, like noticing small details (“I love how you always wear those cute earrings”). This focus shows that he’s invested in getting to know you.
4. He Goes Out of His Way to Make You Laugh
   A man who’s flirting will often amp up the humor. He’ll tease you (but in a lighthearted, kind way), share funny stories, and make an extra effort to keep things fun and lighthearted. When a guy wants to impress you, he’ll use humor as a tool, hoping his jokes will make you feel closer to him and show off his playful side.

These signs are usually easy to spot once you know what to look for! Just remember to trust your instincts if you feel a spark, there’s a good chance he does too.

By Edima Columbus