Ah, friendship! It’s a beautiful thing, isn’t it? But let’s get one thing straight: just because we’re friends doesn’t mean you automatically earn yourself a spot as a bridesmaid. Oh no, my dear! In Nigeria, we have a whole different set of rules when it comes to choosing our bridal squad.
First of all, being my friend is great and all, but being a bridesmaid requires a special kind of commitment. It’s like joining a mini-cult, but with prettier outfits and fewer sacrifices.

You see, being a bridesmaid means more than just wearing a fancy dress and walking down the aisle. It means late-night planning sessions, emergency pep talks, and being on call 24/7 for all my pre-wedding meltdowns.

So, my dear friend, before you start measuring yourself for that bridesmaid dress, let’s make sure you’re ready for the ride. And if you’re not, don’t worry! There are plenty of other ways to be involved in the wedding without having to wear uncomfortable shoes. Trust me, you’ll thank me later!