Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Tems, known professionally as Tems, has ignited conversation with her candid take on men’s intentions in relationships. In a recently released teaser for an upcoming episode of “Flow with Korty,” Tems suggests that many men prioritize physical intimacy over emotional connection. When host Korty EO inquired about her experiences with love, Tems reportedly remarked, “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.” This statement has sparked debate online, with some viewers agreeing with Tems’ perspective and others expressing differing viewpoints.

Beyond relationships, the “Essence” singer also opened up about the struggles she’s faced due to her reserved personality. Tems revealed that her introverted nature was often misinterpreted, leading to misunderstandings and even bullying. “Everything I did seemed to annoy everybody,” she shared. “They would say, ‘Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.’ And I would say, ‘You are very stupid. Are you crazy?’ I was upset all the time.” Tems went on to explain that she found solace and an outlet for self-expression in her music.