Nigerian fashion designer and social media influencer, Veekee James, has ignited a firestorm of controversy with her recent comments regarding sexual relations within marriage. Her remarks, delivered at a bridal shower, have been widely circulated online, drawing sharp criticism from a broad spectrum of voices.

James, who is herself a newlywed, advised her sister-in-law, and by extension, all women, that denying their husbands sex is unacceptable. She went so far as to suggest that even when utterly exhausted, a wife’s duty extends to simply “lie down and open your legs,” effectively minimizing any need for active participation.

“I have at least almost a year and a half of marriage experience. So don’t deny your husband sex; it’s not a lie. Sometimes you might be so tired that you cannot move and the last thing you want is anyone touching you. Heck, on some days you may be able to see that he looks like he’d go and die in the bathroom. My sister, just lie down and open your legs; you don’t need to do anything, just make the crooked way straight,” she stated.

These comments, captured on video and shared across social media platforms, have been met with swift and fierce backlash. Critics are accusing James of promoting a view of marriage that is both archaic and deeply misogynistic, reducing women to mere sexual objects and perpetuating a culture of sexual entitlement within marriage.

The outcry spans social media, with many users expressing disbelief and anger at what they perceive as a dangerous and harmful message. Many are pointing out the inherent lack of consent and the potential for abuse within such a dynamic, emphasizing that sexual activity within a marriage should always be consensual and mutually desired.

Feminist groups and advocates for sexual and reproductive rights have also weighed in, condemning James’s statement as a setback for the progress made in promoting gender equality and women’s autonomy. They argue that such views contribute to a climate where marital rape and sexual coercion can be easily excused or overlooked.

The controversy continues to escalate, with many calling on Veekee James to retract her statement and issue a public apology. The incident has also reignited a broader conversation about the complexities of marriage, the importance of consent, and the ongoing struggle to redefine traditional gender roles within contemporary Nigerian society.

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